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Babies don't suffer when mothers return to work, study reveals

• Findings overturn earlier research on working mothers
• Gains of being in employment outweigh disadvantages

Siobhan Freegard
Siobhan Freegard of Mumsnet said the findings would be embraced by every working mother in the country. Photograph: Observer

A ground-breaking study has found that mothers can go back to work months after the birth of their child without the baby's wellbeing suffering as a result.

By assessing the total impact on a child of the mother going out to work, including factors outside the home, American academics claim to have produced the first full picture of the effect of maternal employment on child cognitive and social development. Their conclusion will provide comfort for thousands of women who re-enter the employment market within a year of giving birth.

"The good news is that we can see no adverse effects," said American academic Jane Waldfogel, currently a visiting professor at the London School of Economics. "This research is unique because the question we have always asked in the past has been: 'If everything else remains constant, what is the effect of a mum going off to work?' But of course everything else doesn't stay constant, so it's an artificial way of looking at things.

"Family relationships, family income, the mental health of the mother all change when a mother is working and so what we did was to look at the full impact, taking all of these things into account."

In one of the most fraught areas of social policy and research, several studies over the past two decades have suggested that children do worse if their mothers go back to work in the first year of their lives.

Recent research by the Institute for Social and Economic Research at Essex University found that children of mothers who went back to work within the first three years were slower learners, and a 2008 Unicef study recommended that mothers stay at home for the first 12 months or "gamble" with their children's development. The Pew Research Centre in Washington found high levels of anxiety among women over the issue.

The new study, led by New York's Columbia University School of Social Work, was published last week by the Society for Research in Child Development. The National Institute of Child Health and Human Development Study of Early Child Care followed more than 1,000 children from 10 geographic areas aged up to seven, tracking their development and family characteristics.

It found that, while there are downsides to mothers taking work during their child's first year, there were also significant advantages – an increase in mothers' income and wellbeing, and a greater likelihood that children receive high-quality childcare. Taking everything into account, the researchers said, the net effect was neutral.

"The effect of the parenting itself is the key factor," said Waldfogel. "It is hugely important how sensitive you are to your child's needs. Even for women who have to work more than 30 hours a week, they can make things better for themselves, they just need to take a deep breath on the doorstep, dump all the office worries behind them and go in the door prepared to pay attention to all their children's cues. This is good news for all mothers.

"I'm actually delighted to have been able to disprove earlier studies. We just had to ask some different questions and this approach of looking at the whole picture is definitely the right question to be looking at.

"This is especially good news for US mothers, who typically go back to work after three months because of the lack of maternity leave, but it equally will apply to the typical British family."

Waldfogel added that part-time work, up to 30 hours a week, provides more desirable outcomes than full-time employment. The authors attribute their striking findings to the rich data used in the study, detailing parent-child interactions, income and childcare. They also used an analytic method that allowed them to calculate the total effect of maternal employment taking into account all knock-on effects.

Parents and campaigners welcomed the findings. Siobhan Freegard, co-founder of the parenting website Netmums, said the results would be embraced by every working mother, and pointed out that many women had no choice but to work and their attitude was often "we are doing our best".

Sally Gimson, director of communications at the Family and Parenting Institute, said the quality of childcare was crucial. "Women should not feel guilty whatever choices they make – and that does not mean you have to make the choice to work. Often it is the more well-off women who have the choice, while many others have to work," Gimson said.

Sam Willoughby, 37, wanted to go back to her job at a financial services company part-time after having her daughter, Alice. "But they were incredibly inflexible," she said. She decided not to return and now runsmumandworking.co.uk, which aims to help mothers find flexible options, both full- and part-time. "So many things make working mothers feel awful, but the reality is, as this study shows, that going back to work is acceptable.

"There is a notion that mothers should spend all their time with their children but that is wrong. You need to also do things that are just for you. And a career can give you that."

Julie Wilson, 43, returned to work full time when her first son, James, was six months old. "We had a really good nursery nearby and it was absolutely fine. I really enjoyed my job and never considered changing my hours. I don't feel he missed me – he was happy at nursery. He was occupied all the time… Later on it was really educational."

When her second son, Ben, was born, she returned to work again, but went part-time. Wilson, who now works as a freelance, thinks the decision to work had no negative impact on the boys, now 12 and eight. "Looking at James now, he is a very rounded individual."


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  • Knightly Knightly

    1 Aug 2010, 1:59AM

    Findings overturn earlier research on working mothers

    Er ….sorry ….no….

    >Findings are not consistent with previous research and probably wrong

    Would be a better description.

    Lot of fuss about nothing......

  • misterskid misterskid

    1 Aug 2010, 2:01AM

    I like the conclusions and instinctively agree with them, but:

    "I'm actually delighted to have been able to disprove earlier studies. We just had to ask some different questions"

    ...with that kind of objective approach I fear that they're going to get torn apart!

  • Knightly Knightly

    1 Aug 2010, 2:06AM

    I just re –read the article and I love it even more now!

    How about this gem….

    Sam Willoughby, 37, wanted to go back to her job at a financial services company part-time after having her daughter, Alice. "But they were incredibly inflexible," she said. She decided not to return and now runsmumandworking.co.uk, which aims to help mothers find flexible options,

    So she could not find a flexible option herself and this makes her an expert on finding flexible options for others! Hillarious!!!

  • 10987 10987

    1 Aug 2010, 2:07AM

    It doesn't overturn anything. What a shame that The Guardian are so desperate to justify their progressive stance on childrearing that they'll jump on any piece of rubbish and proclaim it as the new, wonderful truth. It reminds me of something... global warming sceptics trumpeting anything they can find that supports their stance... I wonder why?

    I thought this place was supposed to be good on science coverage?

  • EmmaZunz EmmaZunz

    1 Aug 2010, 2:07AM

    What is this rubbish reporting?

    Details please!

    Were these properly controlled studies, e.g. of identical twins raised by different parents, stuff like that?

    Or just a huge Excel database with people comparing every variable they can?

  • ArseneKnows ArseneKnows

    1 Aug 2010, 2:12AM

    Any study that can make the following claim about what happens when mothers return to work is written by people who aren't living in the same world as the majority of us.

    a greater likelihood that children receive high-quality childcare.

  • brianboru1014 brianboru1014

    1 Aug 2010, 2:21AM

    Careers, careers and more careers.

    This is especially good news for US mothers, who typically go back to work after three months because of the lack of maternity leave

    A study can prove anything. This study caters to the business leaders, all men and nobody else.
    Of all the well balanced kids (and later adults) I know, 95% had mothers who stayed with them for the first 3 years of their life. The other 55 are just lucky with good child care. In the US, women are pressurized by the business world to return to work asap because "careers" are on the chopping block. The amount of violence and extreme bad behavior in the US can be contributed to a lack of nurture over the past few generations. Being a full-time mother/father for the first few years of a child's life is the most noble "career" decision one can make.

  • IndependentLady IndependentLady

    1 Aug 2010, 2:23AM

    Usual stuff below the line from those who want women back at home to be fucked whenever the men require it.

    Typical. I honestly don't know why you people bother.

    Feminist propaganda. Treat with extreme caution.

    Actually, for the vast majority of mothers, going back to work is necessary because the family needs the income to pay things like the mortgage, the food bills, the utility bills, you know, all those things associated with being a parent and an adult in our "put down anyone who does not agree with the patriarchy" approach to everything.

    God do you guys feel that insecure that you have to denigrate anything that might put women on something approaching equal footing?

    You really are sad.

  • eastangles eastangles

    1 Aug 2010, 2:24AM

    "there were also significant advantages – an increase in mothers' income and wellbeing, and a greater likelihood that children receive high-quality childcare."

    Oh, I thought this was how it was better for children, my mistake.

  • IndependentLady IndependentLady

    1 Aug 2010, 2:26AM

    I've read this piece twice. It's just some vague "doo dee dah" rubbish. No proper details of the surveys mentioned at all.

    There is a link to the relevant journal article, where you will find all of the necessary detail, if you'd care to look rather than simply dissing the article.

    And if you want scientific journal article standard of reporting, go and read scientific journal articles, dear.

  • EmmaZunz EmmaZunz

    1 Aug 2010, 2:37AM

    @IndependentLady

    I'm not subscribed, so I can't get to the article.

    That's why it's important that reporting of scientific studies reports details in an orderly way.

    What we have here is a hodgepodge of imprecise aspects of the study, telephone calls to nobodies who run websites, and researchers handing out parenting advice.

    What a load of rubbish.

    Reporters need to give us the methods, results and conclusions of the study. Those are all pretty easy to find for anyone who reads the article (which I doubt the journos have).

    How can we can make our own minds up with this garbage quality of information?

  • bobsyouruncle1 bobsyouruncle1

    1 Aug 2010, 2:41AM

    The bond between a mother and it's child is the most important thing in human civilisation, and it can't be monetised. That doesn't mean it's worth nothing, and should be cast aside at the first opportunity.

  • Scheusslich Scheusslich

    1 Aug 2010, 2:42AM

    It found that, while there are downsides to mothers taking work during their child's first year, there were also significant advantages – an increase in mothers' income and wellbeing, and a greater likelihood that children receive high-quality childcare. Taking everything into account, the researchers said, the net effect was neutral.

    So unless you are a woman with a well paid job, good enough to put your kids in top child care, you are doing your kids no favors.

    Seems like this report isnt so different to the others after all. Just given a little so called progressive spin.

  • peterainbow peterainbow

    1 Aug 2010, 2:43AM

    there were also significant advantages – an increase in mothers' income and wellbeing, and a greater likelihood that children receive high-quality childcare. Taking everything into account, the researchers said, the net effect was neutra

    so all this 'proves' is tha the us has a terrible social and health care system that effectivelt forces women to work? or am i missing something here

    also why would we take a study of people in another country and conclude it applies here?

  • estivboy estivboy

    1 Aug 2010, 3:00AM

    I like this bit

    It found that, while there are downsides to mothers taking work during their child's first year, there were also significant advantages – an increase in mothers' income and wellbeing, and a greater likelihood that children receive high-quality childcare. Taking everything into account, the researchers said, the net effect was neutral.

    Ok, so they are saying there is a greater likelihood that a child will recieve high quality childcare if the mother goes back to work and then takes that money and pays someone (who isn't paid very well anyway) to look after her kid. Won't that depend on how much she earns and can then afford? Minimum wage mums will only afford the basic care which is a LESSER QUALITY than her care for her child. It's unlikely ANY childcare is going to better than that which the parent provides. She has a personal interest after all.
    And the net effect is 'neutral'. Ok so it's not negative but all that says is that the child doesn't suffer but gains nothing.

    Where is the advantage? Mum goes to work, baby is left with someone else mum comes home and find shes lost twice. One, she works and hands most of that money to a carer (effectivly working 30 hours for the money that is left, lets say one third of her net wage). Two, she spends less time with her child overall and that child recieves the limited attention of a childcare worker who has other children in their care.

    This effectivly promotes the idea that it's ok for you to go out and earn (possibly good, who knows) money of which a portion you pay to a poorly paid worker to surrogate for you. None of this would work unless you earn more than you pay. It just transfers responsibility.

    I would like to add that my wife works from home and i am self employed. We share. I also know this situation applies to very few and that i don't wish to imply hey we do it why can't you. Some have no choice.

    There is also no mention of a male responibility in this. Why is he not working part time?

    My other favorite bit of this article is

    Wilson, who now works as a freelance, thinks the decision to work had no negative impact on the boys, now 12 and eight. "Looking at James now, he is a very rounded individual."

    Oh good then we have an example where 'whew it worked alright for me'. As a value judgement on the debate that statement adds nothing. So your 12 year old is fine. Might that be your biased opinion on self justification for going bck to work? Personal analogy is the lowest form of proof. It would easily be countered by one other person saying the opposite.

    Finally and sorry to go on.

    "There is a notion that mothers should spend all their time with their children but that is wrong. You need to also do things that are just for you. And a career can give you that."

    OK yes we all need a bit of 'me time'. Difficult if you are single but isn't that what the father is supposed to help you do by sharing the caring so you can get that alone time?
    And the poor underpaid, usually lacking in good qualifications, (that's a lot of the industry otherwise they'd do something else) carer just struggles along on a pitiful income while you run out for lunch without that cumbersome baby.
    And there the carer is when you pick her up saying "Oh yes your child was wonderful today not a problem". Because if they told you actually no, your child is a nightmare because they don't see their parents all day they run the risk of you screaming at them "Well she's fine with me so you must be neglecting her! I'll sue, and i want a camera installed so i can monitor your every move via my desk!"

  • Kuala Kuala

    1 Aug 2010, 3:08AM

    Independent Lady

    Such anger..I have some sympathy for your views....but many work for "life's little luxuries" not tp pay utility bills.

    Also, some of the most denigrating views I have ever heard have come from middle class working mothers sneering at those mothers who choose to stay at home because they see it as important.

    "I need to work..I couldn't stay at home and let my brain atrophy!" i.e. the only acceptable choice is the all powerful superwoman.

    As a working dad I would rather be with my kids than "bringing home the bacon" but most of us don't have the choice

  • SoundAndImage SoundAndImage

    1 Aug 2010, 3:11AM

    Groundbreaking? Spare me please.

    Another apologia for the neo-con work ethic.

    This is as 'scientific' as the ATOs questions to the disabled which miraculously finds them able and fit to work regardless.

    Together with Rawsley's useless twaddle elsewhere, this paper is turning into meaningless mush.

  • spoonspoiler spoonspoiler

    1 Aug 2010, 3:17AM

    Feminist propaganda. Treat with extreme caution.

    Don't be daft. This all about trying to get people to respect the duty of work above anything else. Men and women.

    It's an insult to all of us.

    At what point in evolution did it become O.K. to let your childs upbringing and socialisation be passed to someone else because you have other priorities?

    In no way am I saying that is the responsibility of the mother. However I do think it's unbelievable that people (men or women) feel guily about taking time off work because they have created a new life!

    O.K. I'm on a bit of a rant here but jeeeezzz. This is really getting me annoyed.

    How did they conduct these tests?

    At some point they must have carried out some sort of assessment on the children brought up in families where both parents worked. What was the child supposed to be like? What criteria did they use to say that the child was O.K....fecking paper round?

    Like I say I'm having a rant. i just hate that sort of thing.

  • celticnorman celticnorman

    1 Aug 2010, 3:19AM

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  • Kuala Kuala

    1 Aug 2010, 3:44AM

    houses

    Now that the world cup is over (no sewing footballs) and chimney sweeps have few openings (nasty fossil fuels!)..there are hardly any decent jobs for babies

  • TheGrayCat TheGrayCat

    1 Aug 2010, 3:57AM

    This is great; now women who work in low paying jobs can be forced back to work within a few days of giving birth (maternity leave will still be kept for those in the managerially classes, who are more important, as people - we need those box ticking aristocrats back at "work", to tick boxes for us)

    Of course I'm being sarcastic.

    I know the agenda of the editors who published this shit, and I know what I'd like to see happen to them.

    Keep going - but don't come the crybaby if some day someone makes you account for you've done.

  • aldcroft aldcroft

    1 Aug 2010, 4:01AM

    Bobsyouruncle, the bond between a mother and it's child is the most important thing in human civilisation..." because? Evidence? Do you have ANY idea how many mothers state they preferred their pre-children lives? It's because of silly comments like this that they have limited room to say how they feel.

  • MawalTrees MawalTrees

    1 Aug 2010, 4:07AM

    Babies are not the exclusive responsibility of their mothers. In fact it's pretty much 50/50. There's single mums out there getting up at 6am, feeding their kids, dress them, off to child minder/school, then she's off to work all day, finish work, pick the kids up, feed them, read/play etc, get them in bed, housework, then the zombie turns up expecting sex and she's [in need herself], gets that outta way and off to bed by midnight if she lucky - some are even studying as well. Most blokes would vapourise within a year if they had to keep up that kind of schedule imho.

    I don't see the point of proving or disproving the impact of work on mothers/babies. Work is a reality, the rich have stolen all the money, and one income households are quaint memory for couples, and for single parents there's no other options is there?

    Mums are by and large doing a great job, without them society would simply implode, and if more [not all], fathers pulled their fingers out instead of b'tching like little girls, there wouldn't be a problem would there?

    [bloke speaking]

    Cheers.

  • JobHunter JobHunter

    1 Aug 2010, 4:14AM

    I think it is great if the results of this study are true, because increasingly women seem to be going back to work early after having children, though the ones I know don't usually need the money. Somehow though this result just seems counter-intuitive. Even though I am a (childless) woman, a feminist, and someone who likes her independence, it strikes me that mothers should be near their babies the majority of the time whilst the baby is in its "vulnerable" first few years. Sure Mum can have a break - she need not be superwoman, but this is where friends/husbands/extended family comes in. Going back to a job for a bit of "me time" seems a bit extreme to me.

  • Nielsgeorg Nielsgeorg

    1 Aug 2010, 4:42AM

    It's simply laughable, why haven't the researchers just visited the scandinavian
    countries, where nearly every women start to work again a year after giving birth.
    And mostly part time.

  • SentientKeyboard SentientKeyboard

    1 Aug 2010, 4:51AM

    Some pertinent details from the paper (quoted from the freely available sections):

    Some methodology:

    ...A longitudinal study of 1364 children born in 1991...The sample was drawn from 10 sites around the nation and. although not nationally representative, is fairly diverse...

    Who were the test subjects:

    Families who were living in difficult circumstances (e.g., mothers under 18, families who anticipated moving, infants who were multiple births or had health problems or disabilities, mothers who did not speak English, mothers with medical problems or substance abuse problems, or families living in a dangerous neighborhood) were excluded from the study...

    A snippet from the 'Big Picture' (their words)

    In ordinary least squares (OLS) regressions for non-Hispanic White women, FT work in the 1st year is associated with modestly lower child cognitive scores (relative to not working), but this is not the case for PT work. Neither FT work nor PT work is associated with more child behaviour problems (relative to not working), although FT work does seem to be worse in this regard than PT work.

    (I leave it to a professional Social Statistician to tell us what 'ordinary least squares' means.

    Draw your own conclusions.

  • estivboy estivboy

    1 Aug 2010, 5:07AM

    Oh i can't resist another go

    They also used an analytic method that allowed them to calculate the total effect of maternal employment taking into account all knock-on effects.

    Oh so by using some very sciencey sounding analytical stuff we got these fantastic findings. Kind of like how we applied this sort of neo economic/management theory to Britain and managed to cut waiting times in NHS Emergency rooms. Except we didn't. NHS managers just took the wheels off the trolleys and re-designated hallways as wards.

    I would say this. Anyone who claims to have established a scientific method for determining what's good for society should immediately not be trusted. Social policy and opinion is no place for economists and management theory wonks, Professor of social work and public affairs Jane Waldfogel aside.
    I don't believe quantifying human behaviour mathematically is going to lead to anything but a very narrow view of human behaviour and society as a whole.

    As it has been said. The only people who actually conform to this view are Economists and sociopaths.

    Finally and again because i can't resist because here we have the best paragraph of all.

    "The effect of the parenting itself is the key factor," said Waldfogel. "It is hugely important how sensitive you are to your child's needs. Even for women who have to work more than 30 hours a week, they can make things better for themselves, they just need to take a deep breath on the doorstep, dump all the office worries behind them and go in the door prepared to pay attention to all their children's cues. This is good news for all mothers.

    If the woman was so sensitive to the childs need why did she dump it in childcare?
    And it all sounds so easy. At work mum meets the needs of her employer and at home she just has to meet all the needs of her child! Just shut off work like a robot and go inside. Wow the power of a deep breath!
    Can someone show me what i missed in that paragraph and this article because by my reckoning NOBODY least of all the mother has actually gained an advantage which i thought was supposed to be the point.

    Any study that claims to address the issues of working woman and parenting but makes no mention of the responsibilities or help of a partner or husband or family or anyone but a child care worker makes me think. I hope this doesn't get printed in the paper. Even if you got the paper for free it still isn't going to worth the paper it's printed on.

  • bodywithoutorgans bodywithoutorgans

    1 Aug 2010, 5:09AM

    Complete nonsense. More rubbish which only serves to break up the family unit and grant more "baby care" to the state since mum will no longer be around to breast feed. Why should mum's be at all interested in returning to the "labour market" when they have babies to raise? The one hundred year conclusion of such mendacious words is very worrying...

  • bodywithoutorgans bodywithoutorgans

    1 Aug 2010, 5:13AM

    ...just to clarify my point: if you have a baby, then the state and all social mechanisms should aim to allow the mother to spend as much time with her baby as possible. Returning to work after six months maternity leave or its equivalent is preposterous. A mother deserves at least four years maternity leave...no child should be placed into the hands of the state before such an age...

  • mortimer33 mortimer33

    1 Aug 2010, 5:26AM

    The vitriol that this article has unleashed is unbelievable. For a start, children are generally parented by two people. Where is the toxic crticism against men who return to work after two weeks of paternity leave? Not there, is it? Because as usual, women are expected to be all things to all people.

    It is very difficult making choices about what is "best" for your child, but god knows that it is not helped by do-gooders lecturing women about being reckless if they decide to return to work. The world is not an easy place to navigate as a parent and often women need (god forbid - want) to maintain a career, contribute to family finances and continue to work in the field they trained for. They should not have to apologise for these choices and they should certainly not be made to feel that they are disadvantaging their children becuase of it. Children enjoy socialising, they enjoy other environments, and as long as they come home to a stable and loving home they will be more than allright. What next? Shall we have another round at women who can't breastfeed or choose not to, and accuse them of bringing their child's IQ down by 0.1 %. Can we please maybe focus our energies on children that really need our help - those that are abused, are illiterate, are failed by the state, forced to fight in wars, live in refugee camps, don't get enough food ....the list is endless... and much of it happening on your doorstep. Think before you critizise those just trying to do the best they can. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

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    1 Aug 2010, 5:36AM

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  • estivboy estivboy

    1 Aug 2010, 5:40AM

    @bodywithoutorgans

    no child should be placed into the hands of the state before such an age......because nothing good comes from state care...

    I think your letting ideology cloud things a little here. No one has said that childcare is always state run. In fact many mothers would ask that there be more of it because private childcare is expensive. It's a common complaint.
    Very few parents would share your view that public (state) employees are closet socialists and that the state is evil by default.
    By asking for affordable care she would have a point too. If the mother goes to work and is expected to do so, (because that's what the economy wants, more production), then affordable (subsidised) care for her children would allow her to do so. Or would you prefer she just suffers on all counts?
    At least, whatever a mother chose to do it would be based on a more honest assessment of her personal needs and not a question of her economic situation. She would also get keep more of that money she earns and spend it on frivolous things like better food for the child.
    So explain to me why state funded childcare (as opposed to private) would be more sinister or different to the role state primary schools play or any other part of the state school system, including universities?

    Most people who have commented have avoided arguments based on ideology because most people would agree that the person who is most suited to care for a child is the parent. Don't waste our time by implying there a sinister subplot to this.

  • Peacemaker Peacemaker

    1 Aug 2010, 5:42AM

    Of course the babies don't suffer, it's when they're children and young adults, that's when they begin to suffer.

    Why do you think all the problems start after the age of 10?

  • SkyDogg2882 SkyDogg2882

    1 Aug 2010, 6:17AM

    More details of the original study should have been provided by the article, especially since the original study is published behind a "pay-wall".

    It isn't good enough for your reporter to tell us she trusts the study. She has to tell us enough about it that we can judge for ourselves.

    Or perhaps the authors of the original study will make it available somewhere free of charge.

  • didi1970 didi1970

    1 Aug 2010, 6:21AM

    This is research simply tries to balance out the myriad of research that ladens mothers with guilt about how they bring up their kids, however surious it may be, we could also say that about the previous research. It's all open to crtique.

    The findings are 'neutral'; kids get brought up/dragged up in all kinds of scenarios, and it is the way in which women react to these findings that's the most interesting. Women should not be using science to backup their parenting choices but be willing to accept the choices of others. It seems there's a lack of recognition that the role of the parent has changed; it's more fluid than before; single parents who want to work can (with the help of childcare credits which do exist I am receipt of them) those who do not want to work have the choice, even if it means they will not be as well off. This may well be the issue; is it right to expect that just because we have a womb and give birth that we should expect some kind of special treatment.?

  • VSSO VSSO

    1 Aug 2010, 6:24AM

    This article is very disappointing. Of course there are women who have to work and cannot look after their babies and need to put them in daycare. But to say that working is good for baby is similar to saying neglecting your baby is good for them. It builds their social skills. This is very sad! Which daycare could do better than a mom caring for our baby?

  • Wyndley1857 Wyndley1857

    1 Aug 2010, 6:27AM

    Peacemaker

    Of course the babies don't suffer ...

    Really?

    As they say on Wikipedia "citation needed".

    You might find a study of Attachment Theory deepens your understanding of very young children.

    My partner and I see very many young parents who clearly find their baby/toddler a damn nuisance, an impediment to the dominant consumerist, er, 'lifestyle' and who prefer to be on the mobile rather than interacting with their toddler who is stuffing self with a sausage roll.

    (Fast food as substitue for emotional wellbeing starts early, it seems.)

    No doubt as an unreconstructed patriarch I shall get plenty of attacks, but as someone who has had to recall the destablizing effects of adults anxiety in the very early years of the second world war - "I wonder which part of Canada the children will go to" - I can assure you that very young children may not be able to articulate their distress, but they detect threats to their emotional well-being, and can suffer from them many years later.

  • SkyDogg2882 SkyDogg2882

    1 Aug 2010, 6:28AM

    General post: If you can't follow any article in a scientific journal, don't expect to follow the one this story is based on.

    When it comes to scientific articles they don't understand, people blindly accept the truth of articles they agree with, and blindly shoot down articles they disagree with.

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    @SentientKeyboard
    A snippet from the 'Big Picture' (their words)

    In ordinary least squares (OLS) regressions for non-Hispanic White women, FT work in the 1st year is associated with modestly lower child cognitive scores (relative to not working), but this is not the case for PT work. Neither FT work nor PT work is associated with more child behaviour problems (relative to not working), although FT work does seem to be worse in this regard than PT work.

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    That actually sounds pretty good to me. As the article suggests, they are saying part time work is okay, whereas full time work should be avoided in the first year.

    But the question is how do they get the data they input into that?

    They really should publish the full study where we can read it.

    Maybe The Guardian should have a proper statistician and a proper sociologist report on the article.

    Ordinary Least Squares are explained here:
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ordinary_least_squares

  • OneManIsAnIsland OneManIsAnIsland

    1 Aug 2010, 6:49AM

    "found that, while there are downsides to mothers taking work during their child's first year, there were also significant advantages – an increase in mothers' income and wellbeing, and a greater likelihood that children receive high-quality childcare"

    Because we already know that developing babies are not just aware of how much their mother earns, but actively gain comfort from knowing the figure involved. Yes, mum has dumped me with the childminder and yes, I have abandonment issues, but hey - we totally bank at Coutts.

    Next week. New study reveals that chlidren of fathers who work late and never get home in time to see them are actually not harmed when you take into account the net effect of absent father + additional chance of promotion.

    What a relief for us all.

  • aldcroft aldcroft

    1 Aug 2010, 6:52AM

    Stop putting the onus for care on mums. Dads can, and should, step up so that mums can be freer, too. Stay-at-home mothers not only strain relationships (child-free partnerships exhibit greater satisfaction and more 'marital happiness)), but also burden men. Imagine being the sole income provider but particularly at a time like this! No wonder men die younger. At no time in history has stay-at-home parenting been anything but an aberration. Who could afford such a lifestyle? Hardly anyone. It's not 'normal'; it's not good fir women is many ways; children have always had parents who worked; indeed, it wasn't that long ago when we expected kids to work, too. Maybe we expect too much of ourselves and too little of them...?

  • NotAgainAgain NotAgainAgain

    1 Aug 2010, 6:55AM

    Not sure how applicable this US study is to the UK since there are different employment regulations and culture.

    The bottom line in the literature that there are both pros and cons to staying at home and going to work. Even from your summary of this piece would suggest that in general the best option is the compromise of part time work. Where the mother is not isolated completely from the world of work but has more time to look after the kids.

    "There is a notion that mothers should spend all their time with their children but that is wrong. You need to also do things that are just for you. And a career can give you that."

    This comment just highlights how much I hate careerists of both genders. Most people have a job that is dull tedious, low paid and the main beneficiary is the boss and the state and the house owners, who benefit from cheap labour, increased taxes and increased house prices now that it takes two incomes to pay for a family home.

    In contrast many careerists I know are selfish, self absorbed, utterly cynical and the main purpose of their work is self promotion.

    A parent with a job would probably be better off looking after children if s/he had adequate financial support. In contrast a person with career may be so emotionally detached from their child that the child is better off if the parent employs a nanny and works to pay for it.

    Ultimately the best determinant should probably be each and every parent and the state should support their choices by providing adequate parental leave. What is fundamentally wrong is people with the option of careers bullying people who only have option of poorly paid jobs back into work.

  • RA1966 RA1966

    1 Aug 2010, 6:56AM

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